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by: Amy Twain
To find the true meaning of happiness is by far every man’s ultimate goal in
life. Of course, we all want to be happy—who doesn’t? They say that true
happiness is such an elusive thing. Sometimes, you don’t really have to find it
but it’s up to you to feel happy in even all the small things in life.
But then, it’s inevitable that there are still people who are not happy. For
one, the key factor to the road of true happiness is when you decide that you
would be happy. For some, the joy and welfare of other loved ones are of top
priority than their own.
Yes, it can please very well the special persons in our life, but this is not
entirely the real pathway to true happiness. Take note that I don’t mean that
you must be selfish. However, in order for you to be truly happy, your own
contentment should not take a back seat just to make other people glad.
After prioritizing your happiness, now you have to find out what really makes
you happy. In order for you to do this, you can reminisce all those past events
and memories which bring you back in time that makes you smile and glad. Rather
than think about what made you sad and regretful, just focus on the positive and
blissful moments.
Then, taking the next step, you could now connect that into an activity. Maybe
you could engage in a physical activity that you love best—then you can rekindle
that old passion for always wanting to try how to surf, wakeboarding, or
whatever you want. Or how about something artistic? Then try some art workshops
out there, join a writing class, a foreign language crash course, or anything
you like—the choice is yours.
Look for ways in order to connect and relate the activity and whatever that
makes you joyful. This is an essential factor in finding your true happiness.
Okay, for some, this is not enough to make them happy. Most of us still want
those special persons to be a part of our lives.
Well, now is the time to reconnect with some of our long-lost friends or
relatives we haven’t kept in touch with. Or just a little time for bonding with
family—a grand family reunion can be set; you can organize and arrange it and
spend the moment as if you’ve never been apart by time and distance.
True happiness is also synonymous to sharing a part of ourselves to other too.
By being there for others—may it be consoling them or giving tips and advice,
can be a big help. Or try volunteering for a cause to show your compassion and
kindness to a higher level. Be it in big or small ways—it doesn’t matter as long
as you’re sincere in your intentions for helping others, then true happiness can
be attained.
See, it’s not that difficult to find true happiness. You can also make your own
listing of even all the small things which make you laugh or smile. A good book,
a hilarious movie or a hearty meal in a fave restaurant. It can be anything—find
happiness wherever you can get it.
See Also:
Are You Happy?
I believe that finding happiness and maintaining this feeling as a constant in
our life is directly linked to our personal fulfillment. If we are avid in
pursuing our own personal growth and development then we will experience
authentic happiness.
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About the Author:
The author of this article, Amy Twain, is a Self Improvement Coach who has been successfully coaching and guiding clients for many years. Amy recently published a new home study course on how to boost your Self Esteem. Click here to get more info about her Quick-Action Plan for A More Confident You.
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